I mean fighting verbally. Quarreling. The rule is this: “Talk about yourself and not the other person.”

That’s it. You no longer accuse, you only speak what you think and what you feel.

“I believe that you did this on purpose.” vs. “You did this on purpose.” Or even better: “I feel angry because I believe you did this on purpose.”

(I picked this up while reading the book “Nonviolent Communication”. What a great book that is!)